tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40889040728457587192024-03-05T08:55:52.070-06:00Mary Gordon SpenceFinding Magic in the MundaneMary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-80521158134934998732010-04-09T09:13:00.003-05:002010-04-09T09:13:37.854-05:00Spence: De Haven to the rescue, even for small problems<a href=http://www.statesman.com/opinion/spence-de-haven-to-the-rescue-even-for-540100.html>Spence: De Haven to the rescue, even for small problems</a><br /><br />Posted using <a href="http://sharethis.com">ShareThis</a>Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-32530465979217039952010-04-01T07:46:00.000-05:002010-04-01T07:46:23.878-05:00The Book Doula "Birthing Brilliance"<a href="http://www.bookdoula.biz/blog/">The Book Doula "Birthing Brilliance"</a>Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-82141338823301928852010-03-29T07:55:00.002-05:002010-03-29T07:57:12.694-05:00Remembering Liz: A Crowning Affair<meta content="text/html; charset=utf-8" http-equiv="Content-Type"></meta><meta content="Word.Document" name="ProgId"></meta><meta content="Microsoft Word 12" name="Generator"></meta><meta content="Microsoft Word 12" name="Originator"></meta><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CMary%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml" rel="File-List"></link><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CMary%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_themedata.thmx" rel="themeData"></link><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CMary%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_colorschememapping.xml" rel="colorSchemeMapping"></link><style>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://i.ytimg.com/vi/NQvyU4xZomE/hqdefault.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://i.ytimg.com/vi/NQvyU4xZomE/hqdefault.jpg" width="320" /></a></span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> “Liz here. I’m having a little dinner party to honor Dan Rather. We’re going to be spinning some yarns, and I’d like for you to tell a story or two. Now Dan will be the primary yarn spinner,” she cautioned. “You can have three minutes. Dan get’s thirty.”</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Liz Carpenter can summon heads of states and dignitaries with a call, so who was I to decline? I told her that I’d love to come, and I would limit my storytelling to the three minutes she had given me. I arrived all decked out in a squaw skirt and black boots with my well-rehearsed story.</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">After the “opening ceremony” to welcome her guests, Liz invited everyone to eat. Scattered all over her house, we ate delicious salmon while engaging in great conversations. As I was chewing the last bite of my salmon, I joined the guests at the “big table,” positioning myself between Liz and Lady Bird. As I was about to say something I felt and heard a loud crunch in my mouth. I was sure I had chomped down on a large fish bone, so I delicately spit the foreign object into my napkin, turning my head away from the table exactly as I had been taught in junior high home economics. I quickly glanced at the object in my napkin and then swiped my tongue around my mouth. This was no bone I was holding but a crown from my back right tooth. </span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">After a quick trip to the bathroom where I rinsed out the crown and set it back on the stump of my tooth, I went back to the table, hoping the crown would stay put for the rest of the evening. After all, I had three minutes of fame coming, and I didn’t want to blow it.</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">We gathered back in the living room for storytelling and bananas Foster. Dan Rather took every bit of his 30 minutes, and then others piped in with their stories. I was dying to tell my story, but each time I took a bite of banana or ice cream, that durn crown popped off. Several times I opened my mouth, ready to spin my yarn. Each time, I closed it abruptly as the crown fell to the floor of my mouth.</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">At about 10:30, the Rathers stood up to leave, and other guests followed suit. I stood up to protest that I hadn’t had a chance to tell my story, but the moment my lips came together, that crown popped off once again. I sat back down—my chance to speak before Dan Rather and other dignitaries had passed.</span></div><div class="MsoNoSpacing" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
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After exploring the stairs, restrooms, windows and the bottom two floors of the museum several times, we were ready for the gift shop. I told William he could pick out one thing for his birthday present. Predictably, he headed for the books and began to read one after another. Although I had promised myself that my only influence would be the cost of the item, I suggested other sections of the store so he could explore more options. That's when his eyes locked on a little plastic lion. William moved around the gift shop, looking at other treasures, but he always came back to the lion. What? Two hours in a dinosaur museum and this kid wants to leave with a lion? Through a process of elimination--and some manipulation by me--he finally chose a green plastic dinosaur. I heaved a sigh of relief, hoping that he and "Dino" would reach new heights of exploration together. On the way out of the museum, we once again looked at the tail bones of a dinosaur that reached across a wall and over a door frame. William pronounced that "very inturesting." <br />
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During this past month, William has fallen for dinosaurs big time, and he's embraced learning about them with the same energy and intensity he tackles learning everything else. His mother took him back to the Texas Memorial Museum with his little sister Caroline, and they are all talking and reading about dinosaurs throughout the day. Tory, the mother dinosaur, tells me that every morning, William now wakes up as a dinosaur egg, and when she comes in for a morning hug, her young son breaks through his dinosaur egg shell and emerges as a baby dinosaur. <br />
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During William's sweeopver last week, we talked lots about dinosaurs, of course. We ate supper by candlelight with three dinosaurs as the table centerpieces. He woke up Friday morning, however, as a kid. I'm thinking it was because I forgot to sit on him to get him to hatch. After breakfast and some piano playing, we got back to dinosaurs. I sat him on my lap and began a computer search of dinosaurs, hoping to print out some pictures of his favorite ones. "My favorite dinosaur is the one with wings, the Teranodon," he told me. All my searches for the Teranodon were unsuccessful, and I told him I couldn't find it. That's when William softly and emphatically announced, "But Nini, it begins with a silent P." My search success rate hit an all-time high, and I printed out lots of pictures of Pteranodons. <br />
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Five days later, William is still enthralled by dinosaurs. Today, however, he called to talk about the four seasons. After all this is the week of spring break. We confirmed that he'd come to my house on Friday, and then he wanted to know all the things we would do in the spring and then in the summer. We discussed camping, trips to Zilker Park, and of course our newly planted tomatoes. <br />
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As we were beginning to move on to fall activities, William interrupted himself to deliver some big news. "Nini," he said earnestly. "Don't forget that autumn has a silent N."Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-89877329499019145202010-03-20T18:38:00.005-05:002010-03-20T18:44:18.859-05:00Story Whisperer"Something tells me I'm into something good."<br />
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Thank you, Hermans Hermits for my theme song! I listen to it often, and I've even come up with some new lyrics.<br />
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Indeed I'm into something good with the advent of an additional blog as The Story Whisperer. Follow me and we'll make beautiful music together and create powerful, engaging and compelling stories!<br />
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<a href="http://storywhisperer.blogspot.com/"><b>http://storywhisperer.blogspot.com/</b></a>Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-11743107836999759732010-03-13T08:10:00.001-06:002010-03-13T08:10:49.377-06:00Statesman Commentary March 13http://www.statesman.com/opinion/spence-all-our-problems-demand-some-creative-solutions-347649.htmlMary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-5377321828134314222010-02-06T10:17:00.001-06:002010-02-06T10:17:46.646-06:00Save the Cactus!http://www.statesman.com/opinion/spence-keep-the-cactus-alive-216345.htmlMary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-50417631971827726742010-01-27T15:51:00.002-06:002010-01-27T15:53:45.149-06:00A neighborly interview on KOOP<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9HVJfPLTjQIXdidgw3vlRcL1on9SkakQSRCM0X2As2BZ8eNvcsRkcU0M191AVHeNe3ED5m3PNLLkEiOSmv-kkyDlJNahOVaXGIn8uiYhlO_hvAqB3QQU-jpPyTvmvKjfhV4Ma2vpc5w0/s1600-h/David+MG+KOOP.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9HVJfPLTjQIXdidgw3vlRcL1on9SkakQSRCM0X2As2BZ8eNvcsRkcU0M191AVHeNe3ED5m3PNLLkEiOSmv-kkyDlJNahOVaXGIn8uiYhlO_hvAqB3QQU-jpPyTvmvKjfhV4Ma2vpc5w0/s320/David+MG+KOOP.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5431541108322087218" /></a><br />http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=144133661512&ref=tsMary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-53316968187453222412010-01-07T11:19:00.001-06:002010-01-07T11:19:42.546-06:00Spence: Plugged in for cooking, eating, sleeping, waking and other duties<a href=http://www.statesman.com/opinion/spence-plugged-in-for-cooking-eating-sleeping-waking-157859.html>Spence: Plugged in for cooking, eating, sleeping, waking and other duties</a><br /><br />Posted using <a href="http://sharethis.com">ShareThis</a>Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-37929254951731864972010-01-07T10:59:00.001-06:002010-01-07T10:59:47.826-06:00Memoir Moment #9: Mary Gordon Spence Shares Her Thoughts on Memoir Openings<a href=http://womensmemoirs.com/memoir-writing-interviews/memoir-moment-9-mary-gordon-spence-shares-her-thoughts-on-memoir-openings/>Memoir Moment #9: Mary Gordon Spence Shares Her Thoughts on Memoir Openings</a><br /><br />Posted using <a href="http://sharethis.com">ShareThis</a>Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-90314376912138980972009-10-23T10:22:00.001-05:002009-10-23T10:23:18.774-05:00I thought that I would writeI thought that I would write after my daddy died in mid August. But with planning his memorial service, celebrating his life and speaking at several back-to-school convocations that very week, the only things I wrote were heartfelt thank you notes.<br /><br />I thought that I would write during my two remarkable weeks in Italy in early September. My second day in Lucca, I wrote about trying to figure out which hotel bathroom buttons flushed, which washed, and which turned on the lights. And then I wrote some post cards.<br /><br />After seeing Robert Mapplethorpe’s photos in Florence, along side Michelangelo’s David, I thought I would write. What exactly could I say, however, about the unexpected infusion of good luck into my life where two sacred art forms converged in the same place? I was too wiped out to write down anything except directions back to my hotel. <br /><br />When I saw Saint Catherine’s finger in a jar in Siena’s Church of San Domenico, I was moved to write, but I didn’t. I simply reveled in the memory of my mother’s account of seeing Jesus’ grandmother’s elbow in Canada. Saint Catherine may not have been as well known as Jesus’ grandmother, but she was surely popular in Siena.<br /><br />I thought I would write after walking around Rome for three days with only a city map and my newly acquired Italian phrase, “Ci è un'automobile.” Indeed there were many automobiles, and I became a pro at dodging them as I walked to the Vatican and other historic landmarks.<br /><br />Other writers might have carved out time to write while they traveled. I thought I would, but I spent all of my time feeling, listening, eating, drinking and soaking up everything; writing seemed a long lost art. Because I quickly tired of Frances Mayes’ Under the Tuscan Sun, I left the book in the nun-run hotel where I stayed in Siena. I realized that nobody’s commentary, including my own, enhances my travel experiences. <br /><br />Cool temperatures welcomed me when I got back to Austin, and I thought I’d begin writing immediately. Instead I took lots of naps, stared at my blooming crepe myrtles, ate Austin-purchased Italian foods and wines, and reread the Italian guide books.<br /><br />Something has happened, however, that has led me to the keyboard—a miracle of sorts. Maybe my taking the forbidden picture of St. Catherine’s finger has brought me good luck. <br /><br />I had accidentally left my lawnmower in the backyard while I was on vacation. And then I accidentally left it outside for several weeks after I returned; I had given it up for dead. Just for kicks, several days ago, I primed the neglected hunk of metal and turned the key. After fiddling with it for a few minutes, this Sears Craftsman, self-starting, self-propelled lawnmower kicked into gear, and within 30 minutes, it had pulled me across my backyard where I took down weeds and grasses that had grown higher than an elephant’s eye.<br /><br />I called the president of Sears with this stunning news, and I’m including a picture of my lawnmower among the ones I took of the Leaning Tower, kegs of wine, and the Pantheon. <br /><br />Lots of magic and miracles everywhere—how can I not write?Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-69295775638643287712009-10-14T17:17:00.001-05:002009-10-14T17:20:35.705-05:00Banking for Grownups“Thanks, Mary,” the friendly bank teller said to me this morning after I handed over some money to deposit. I always hate it when people call me Mary; I liked it even less today. As a serious customer with some unexpected money from my daddy who died in August, I should have been <span style="font-style:italic;">Ms. Spence</span> this morning—that’s how serious I was feeling.<br /><br />I then moved over to meet with a friendly banker to open up a savings account. Patricia, the personal-banker-in training greeted me politely. “Hello, Mary.” I told her that my first name was Mary Gordon. <br /><br />“How was your weekend?” my new personal banker asked me as she looked at my accounts online. “Weekend?” I repeated in disbelief. “Today is Wednesday; I don’t much remember the weekend.” That’s when Patricia giggled and told me that today was her first day back from the weekend. “It’s so great to have time off,” she told me with a smile. “You know, you can get so many things done. Oh, and I don’t have to work this Saturday—that will be great.” I didn’t reply.<br /><br />“What are your plans for the rest of your day?” Patricia asked me with a smile as she was retrieving some forms for my new account, “and your plans for the coming weekend?” I looked at her and told her I didn’t know. “Maybe you’ll get to go home and relax,” she said. “How has your day been so far today?”<br /><br />I ignored that and wished that she would take care of business instead of continuing this idle chitchat. She busied herself for a few minutes, and then asked me, “So, are you from Austin?” Trying to be polite and hold up my end of the conversation I told her I had been here a long time. Then, Patricia, my new way-too-personal banker asked me about the weather. “It’s really cloudy outside, isn’t it? Do you know what the weather’s going to be for the rest of the day and for the weekend?”<br /><br />Maybe it was because I was sad about my daddy’s dying and maybe it was because I had come to my bank to talk about my money, and maybe because I was feeling way too grown up and yet at the same time like a child—for whatever reason, I acted like an adult instead of like Patricia the child was acting. “Look, Patricia, this money transaction is a very big deal to me, and that’s what I’m focused on.” <br /><br />I didn’t say another word, and neither did she. Within seconds, Patricia was transformed into a professional banker who seemed to take her work and my situation seriously. Soon, she had done everything to complete my banking transactions. I thanked her, stood up and shook her hand. That’s when she told me to have a good weekend. <br /><br />I sat back down. “Patricia,” I said in my most serious voice. “I imagine that you’ll make a really good banker, but there’s one thing you need to be aware of. People talk to you because they need your help—your professional help. We don’t come to talk about the weather or the weekend, and we don’t want to hear about how you would rather be away from work rather than helping us. So my advice to you is that you focus on the professional needs of your clients.”<br /><br />I was as shocked as she was that I had said those things. But I meant it, and I could tell that she got it. She thanked me for my advice. I could hear her talking to the next customer; she sounded all grown up and professional.<br /><br />Still, I’m wondering what she’s been doing the rest of her day, and what her plans are for the weekend. 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<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">That was the only complete Italian sentence I knew when I headed to <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Italy</st1:place></st1:country-region> in early September.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">And it was a good one to know since indeed there were lots of cars—on highways, byways, curbs and what I perceived as impassable alleys.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Smart cars everywhere, and creative parking was the name of the game in <st1:place st="on"><st1:city st="on">Rome</st1:city></st1:place>! I hadn’t planned to pay so much attention to cars, but then I had no idea how fascinating the traffic scene would be.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I actually rode in very few cars during my two weeks in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Italy</st1:place></st1:country-region>.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
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<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">But I wanted to get back to <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Lucca</st1:place></st1:city>, my new home away from home.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">After learning that there were no buses at all from <st1:city st="on">La Spezia</st1:city> to <st1:city st="on">Lucca</st1:city>, I found a cab driver who was delighted to drive Veleda and me to <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Lucca</st1:place></st1:city>.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">For a mere 150 Euro, more than $200.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">We didn’t bat an eye, and within the hour were back in <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Lucca</st1:place></st1:city>.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUkqGpdIni7NQFjHg2VZtMf9NjiTS-a8Qnr9FkO42ezupSUWLLCKt9tEHEY6YlVOEJH_Hl2Hr4zA6GOE9PA0W7gTzZfctg3T7u-xvWXeQ36oX9cAhVcojoZvIuoEORqogfQAU_oOCPvAs/s1600-h/DSCN5775.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 181px; height: 135px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUkqGpdIni7NQFjHg2VZtMf9NjiTS-a8Qnr9FkO42ezupSUWLLCKt9tEHEY6YlVOEJH_Hl2Hr4zA6GOE9PA0W7gTzZfctg3T7u-xvWXeQ36oX9cAhVcojoZvIuoEORqogfQAU_oOCPvAs/s320/DSCN5775.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389891608133080226" border="0" /></a></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">So much for “Ci è un'automobile.” I’m going to write about WINE soon!</span></p> Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-21425194881272810912009-08-03T03:44:00.009-05:002009-08-03T04:13:41.188-05:00Exam Room Etiquette“Wait, wait,” the doctor cried out as I pulled down my pants. “This isn’t a gynecologist’s office.”<br /><br />I sheepishly pulled up my britches as the gastroenterologist beckoned me to lie down on the table. She had a different set of manners for getting her work done.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxYhIYb_hO6J-tKW73Zk8XkZjSf9WQQjlGxeNo64Ic4m7sKmY-RMGDXED9wZv5gjzR62cmoPgXRNNmfovH-PRNaSAopfxYgNnblNkrhdcgv8wh0hmtty0bwW0eJNMid07tY5ARMkdI1QE/s1600-h/gown.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 103px; height: 122px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxYhIYb_hO6J-tKW73Zk8XkZjSf9WQQjlGxeNo64Ic4m7sKmY-RMGDXED9wZv5gjzR62cmoPgXRNNmfovH-PRNaSAopfxYgNnblNkrhdcgv8wh0hmtty0bwW0eJNMid07tY5ARMkdI1QE/s320/gown.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365663101664842018" border="0" /></a><br /><br />That reminded me of the time I went to another doctor—an internal medicine guy. The nurse handed me a paper top, and I put it on.<br /><br />When the doctor walked in, he took one look at me and said sternly, “This isn’t a gynecologist’s office.” You were supposed to put that top on with the opening down the back.”<br /><br />He walked out of the room, and I turned the stylish top around.<br /><br />Guess I’ve been to way too many gynecological appointments; for the simple a<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiCJuB5cWmv8w2QY8eKHXIqKddZ3jI-MMgVFilPaDFpv9ewyDQ1pgredR5mGcvciDGMaSxDEgX1x5XK1wjFf3D8xR1Zv76fUfnfQpSg-z34qNKuFNCRI1VAAg6O2lxKTRakkezArrE1wQ/s1600-h/bg_topasset3.gif"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 179px; height: 169px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiCJuB5cWmv8w2QY8eKHXIqKddZ3jI-MMgVFilPaDFpv9ewyDQ1pgredR5mGcvciDGMaSxDEgX1x5XK1wjFf3D8xR1Zv76fUfnfQpSg-z34qNKuFNCRI1VAAg6O2lxKTRakkezArrE1wQ/s320/bg_topasset3.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365659744635107362" border="0" /></a>ct of walking into an examination room causes me to take off my clothes.<br /><br />I wish I knew the clothing etiquette for nudists in doctors’ exam rooms.Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-59778775818539220702009-07-07T10:58:00.011-05:002009-07-07T15:28:53.466-05:00A Bright Future<meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CMARYGO%7E1%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" latentstylecount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><style> <!-- /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">A young man pulled up next to my car at a stop light yesterday aftern<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifvphbSRRus3GmzvSYTgJHYuxxvBa30oLbIHVEXbv5UK1py3evVc1BbpjGY3qZDli3pXYx7MinooYeD10MlR9OQFZLFgTwnRdQ-cTkpOEjvq35TVTjSLxGVS27FPDkoGi_Tqch7GzRMvk/s1600-h/DSCN5537.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 174px; height: 231px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifvphbSRRus3GmzvSYTgJHYuxxvBa30oLbIHVEXbv5UK1py3evVc1BbpjGY3qZDli3pXYx7MinooYeD10MlR9OQFZLFgTwnRdQ-cTkpOEjvq35TVTjSLxGVS27FPDkoGi_Tqch7GzRMvk/s320/DSCN5537.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5355749273725933778" border="0" /></a>oon and motioned for me to lower my window.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">“Your left back brake light is out,” he informed me.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I waved my thanks to him, and then he was gone.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">Still basking in the glow of fixing my bathroom sink I decided I could replace the brake light as well. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">That’s when I pulled into an O’Reilly Auto Parts store.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I got way more than I bargained for when I went in.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">First the clerk found the right bulb (two to a pack).</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Next he walked outside with me to show me where to unscrew the back light cover.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">As I was paying for the bulbs I mentioned that I wanted to take a car repair course (which I do).</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">“You don’t have to be a mechanic to work here,” he said.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">And then he handed me an application.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">“That’s the store manager over there,” he continued.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">“Talk to him, and then you can work here with me.”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">I left the shop in a giddy mood, knowing that my future was definitely going to get brighter. I pondered my new life as a part time employee of an auto parts shop. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I liked the way it felt.
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<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">Early this morning I set out to replace the defunct light bulb.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">When I saw my neighbor Sandra pull into her driveway, I ran down to get her.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">(Without a second person, how do you know if your brake light is working?)</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">First, Sandra confirmed that the old light was burned out.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Then she waited for me to replace the bulb so she could confirm that the new one worked.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">Sandra waited.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">And she waited while I tried to remove the old bulb. I twisted, turned and pulled.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">The bulb wouldn’t budge.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I asked Sandra to come back after I had finished so she wouldn’t have to stand in the hot July sun. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">That’s when she uttered the magic words: “</span><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:85%;" >Why don’t you check the owner’s manual</span><span style="font-size:85%;">?”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">I got so excited by this novel concept that I jumped up and down.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">“What a brilliant woman you are,” I exclaimed to Sandra.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">“Brilliant.”</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">It didn’t seem like such a brilliant <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlgOFXh_YXC1NjHzagD5k8z-WUOpLrcVIZplxj-b2b5vyAeJBfisxD94UDTUJ6NYQaHBhpevSY1fNLEo2p7nKWFnag5zC1tYMJyeIHaULYM8n49hRmstcxQo9Mo4WFlmpxP085_RY4LOY/s1600-h/DSCN5535.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 174px; height: 232px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlgOFXh_YXC1NjHzagD5k8z-WUOpLrcVIZplxj-b2b5vyAeJBfisxD94UDTUJ6NYQaHBhpevSY1fNLEo2p7nKWFnag5zC1tYMJyeIHaULYM8n49hRmstcxQo9Mo4WFlmpxP085_RY4LOY/s320/DSCN5535.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5355748805957715650" border="0" /></a>thing to Sandra.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I imagine that it didn’t seem that brilliant to 98.9 % of the rest of the people I know. But it was a grand epiphany to me.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">Within seconds I had replaced the bulb, according to the directions in the owner’s manual. That’s when I asked my neighborhood genius to pose for this picture. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">O.J. the neighborhood cat got in on the action as well. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">We tried out the new light, and it worked like a charm. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I quickly replaced the light cover with everything working.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">Now I’m taking a second look at that job application. I think I would make a very good clerk in an auto parts store.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I have empathy, sympathy and great customer service.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">And I can change a brake light!</span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjm6U0XGljJ9McI4p3bcCkRIBfEm9Yu7rKXQvjVa31KWyo16uvgC_0sH8jAYmYN5lIDNsXxT94mZEK70fGMHEAwpSrPqPGXeLIWGFgZTdUOTyistVhmyo13kkn7DKA4250llD2wBJC5Znk/s1600-h/DSCN5541_edited.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 155px; height: 197px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjm6U0XGljJ9McI4p3bcCkRIBfEm9Yu7rKXQvjVa31KWyo16uvgC_0sH8jAYmYN5lIDNsXxT94mZEK70fGMHEAwpSrPqPGXeLIWGFgZTdUOTyistVhmyo13kkn7DKA4250llD2wBJC5Znk/s320/DSCN5541_edited.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5355751834799619042" border="0" /></a></p> Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-27820963064362462142009-07-02T10:33:00.009-05:002009-07-02T10:50:28.900-05:00It's a plumb messy jobI have completed some mighty fine plumbing work on the bathroom sink in my little bungalow in my reverse-chic South Austin neighborhood. (Let me digress here: It’s really IN now to describe small houses as bungalows; mine is a bungalow-ito.)<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJWu65v291ytP9Rd4kj2dK8JjvPeKj2rjOMsLJGFQ6siS3eWd_sU3J-iBD1GE_qfuhWZNNZ5F60fkTIJ4sQvFm9CB67TqfFIdQATQlan0rVC4xXyqfLBshF_tIvMUcWg2ejwiWvXBll7k/s1600-h/DSCN5519.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 115px; height: 154px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJWu65v291ytP9Rd4kj2dK8JjvPeKj2rjOMsLJGFQ6siS3eWd_sU3J-iBD1GE_qfuhWZNNZ5F60fkTIJ4sQvFm9CB67TqfFIdQATQlan0rVC4xXyqfLBshF_tIvMUcWg2ejwiWvXBll7k/s320/DSCN5519.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5353887708738543778" border="0" /></a><br />My bathroom sink has been draining very slowly for 4-5 months; last weekend all draining stopped. For a few hours I used my kitchen sink to brush my teeth, wash my hands, believing that the stopped up bathroom sink would be ok in a few hours.<br /><br />(Wait—does ANYONE CARE ABOUT MY PLUMBING ISSUES? If this is too boring for you readers, you are excused. I must admit it’s titillating to me!)<br /><br />As I was saying before I so rudely interrupted myself, the plumbing fairy godmother was doing her best to dissolve the clogged up pipes, I’m sure, but the water remained in the sink over night. That’s when I decided to take care of the plumbing issue my very own self.<br /><br />I borrowed a plumbing snake, removed the standing water in the sink, cup by cup, and smartly placed a huge pan underneath the sink. After unscrewing the curvy pipe (so glad for the big pan), I rammed that metal snake back and forth in the straight pipe until something happ<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWiQm6KcBcMQ1W-nWHuS_IPb3R-9ivpB3RgtL_MaFpah9JuDhz_QCQjaFDltKEQq023d4bCofP059hK2uM5iPzbRlituh5Xp31MhcFFw4O083VGGDy8oIhDGwEaVxIL58axfVWXPOqCWQ/s1600-h/DSCN5517.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 107px; height: 143px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWiQm6KcBcMQ1W-nWHuS_IPb3R-9ivpB3RgtL_MaFpah9JuDhz_QCQjaFDltKEQq023d4bCofP059hK2uM5iPzbRlituh5Xp31MhcFFw4O083VGGDy8oIhDGwEaVxIL58axfVWXPOqCWQ/s320/DSCN5517.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5353887409284095074" border="0" /></a>ened. I don’t know exactly what except that some black goop started rolling out of the pipe, into the carefully placed pan.<br /><br />Thinking I had fixed the problem, I turned on the water. Since I had not plugged up the hole for the stopper, the water poured into the pan. After putting the stopper doohickey back into the pipe and tightening the screw, I tried once again. Lo and behold the water ran right down the pipe—just as the god of plumbing intended.<br /><br />So far, the drain is able to handle all the <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4vuHSrhEOx2yMK3w_AfmK4p7XbKUynGQndoIGkwN6Z3rPmxi3Iwrif8sLyYDCtb55SR8UCB9YUhdWDE4WQf9xXcDdp5_PUvVJRJrf6YaF6ZdxhQVrxUQi3EUSU_hJzzNV6pJhLasCuz4/s1600-h/DSCN5520.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 117px; height: 158px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4vuHSrhEOx2yMK3w_AfmK4p7XbKUynGQndoIGkwN6Z3rPmxi3Iwrif8sLyYDCtb55SR8UCB9YUhdWDE4WQf9xXcDdp5_PUvVJRJrf6YaF6ZdxhQVrxUQi3EUSU_hJzzNV6pJhLasCuz4/s320/DSCN5520.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5353888078753567154" border="0" /></a>hand-washing, teeth-brushing water, and this makes me very proud. It’s the mess I left behind that’s the bigger issue. <br /><br />Cleaning up a mess is so less satisfying than fixing a problem. In this case, however, I quickly put everything in the bathroom back together and I'm now giving tours of my bathroom!Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-66433099108662324322009-06-18T12:44:00.014-05:002009-06-18T13:29:31.868-05:00Burn. Scrape. 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<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CMARYGO%7E1%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" latentstylecount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><style> <!-- /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">My new toaster is way too complicated for me.</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Why?</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I can’t figure out how to perform the simple task of toasting bread.</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">
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<br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">My last toaster had only two buttons, and it always made perfect toast. This new one is far more modern with multiple buttons and multiple choices to make for toasting a couple of pieces of bread.</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I have yet to get perfect toast from this modern machine.
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<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">Toasting some bread for a BLT sandwich at noon took me back 50 years or so.</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">That’s because I used the same procedure for making toast today that my mother did in the 1950s: burn the bread; scrape the toast; eat the toast.
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<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">Toast in my childhood home was always scraped, and there were always burned fragments that still clung to the toast; the fragments always stuck to the butter knife.</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">That meant our butter always had little black spots on it.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">I didn’t realize u<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcT7bbelJTm_n531L4frLaz12T0gjkHhW1eJSTUCTRmfzvoU7yDjKsgEUGRk8bTbQI8VYnGcwhIQmuyTXv2naX8Ukzqi6hzbmQ0U82qyoCGNfeB8GQzaK5TrMOv8jOk7qmvQAT8ScnwFg/s1600-h/toaster+%281%29.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 196px; height: 147px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcT7bbelJTm_n531L4frLaz12T0gjkHhW1eJSTUCTRmfzvoU7yDjKsgEUGRk8bTbQI8VYnGcwhIQmuyTXv2naX8Ukzqi6hzbmQ0U82qyoCGNfeB8GQzaK5TrMOv8jOk7qmvQAT8ScnwFg/s320/toaster+%281%29.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348735069213583922" border="0" /></a>ntil I took home economics in the 9<sup>th</sup> grade that there was another way to prepare toast: toast the bread; eat the bread.</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I asked my teacher why she didn’t scrape the toast before we ate it.</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">She had no idea what I was talking about.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">I haven’t had a piece of burned/scraped toast in a long, long time.</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Like my mother used to do, today I scraped my burned toast into the sink.</span><span style=";font-size:85%;" > </span><span style="font-size:85%;">And like my mother did, I think I’ll leave it there until supper.</span></p><p face="arial" class="MsoNormal"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEce7jTs_WagKor_EXCiVLS1NKLEON5Nj3aONOlcWyEqCCw09675XOLNZ4DUxdmkmYc5WSue_pwz55jldByX3oUioTmwKuE7pugoDz1nIyCLl-SOO33mFwuVDgfl4u0ZEb9xChwf-UvUY/s1600-h/sink.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 178px; height: 133px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEce7jTs_WagKor_EXCiVLS1NKLEON5Nj3aONOlcWyEqCCw09675XOLNZ4DUxdmkmYc5WSue_pwz55jldByX3oUioTmwKuE7pugoDz1nIyCLl-SOO33mFwuVDgfl4u0ZEb9xChwf-UvUY/s320/sink.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348735286781671010" border="0" /></a></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style=""> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style=""> </span></p> Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-44340366198022229842009-06-13T13:56:00.016-05:002009-06-13T14:27:26.226-05:00Summertime in South Austin<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2B5sK0QamXTtAHpsv9jmXq4Z2eAH8sriVGeUBc7rxzUZFb6KUT1E2XJrXDoX6rlF2MCgPvU8okGXpwcbKDX0Y6E1p5f4vIepMhYvBC_cen2rSHHD99YdhF5TFkVnyIHGZudQKePA-XTM/s1600-h/Caroline+%26+Nini.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 212px; height: 158px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2B5sK0QamXTtAHpsv9jmXq4Z2eAH8sriVGeUBc7rxzUZFb6KUT1E2XJrXDoX6rlF2MCgPvU8okGXpwcbKDX0Y6E1p5f4vIepMhYvBC_cen2rSHHD99YdhF5TFkVnyIHGZudQKePA-XTM/s320/Caroline+%26+Nini.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346894641192566658" border="0" /></a><br /><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >My backyard is big enough to hold a small circus. It’s wooded and beautiful and backs down to Little Williamson Creek. When I bought my house in 1996, I thought I’d live in the backyard. And I did for a few years.<br /><br />Gradually, however, I’ve moved my outside living to my front yard. My swing was the first sign of front yard living. For several years, I’ve sat outside, just a swinging, and greeting my neighbors who saunter by. Several years ago, I started planting my tomatoes in the front <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnjBMp1nGJN8_llpC5WmMhQT4tRGhTdzsumRmpG8Cr_XG7kzPCBdvPRM_ysxokwWUNTgWDiemqeczQR5kU91nqKU5TB3_mnBtkflCBptOiAEqX9wH9cFDE5hrk2Tr8UdNpiDTWoLLbae0/s1600-h/DSCN5269.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 165px; height: 220px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnjBMp1nGJN8_llpC5WmMhQT4tRGhTdzsumRmpG8Cr_XG7kzPCBdvPRM_ysxokwWUNTgWDiemqeczQR5kU91nqKU5TB3_mnBtkflCBptOiAEqX9wH9cFDE5hrk2Tr8UdNpiDTWoLLbae0/s320/DSCN5269.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346891381904908930" border="0" /></a>yard; several of my reverse-chic neighbors have joined me in front yard gardening. It gives the neighbors lots to talk about when we walk around the hood.<br /><br />Now my front yard is equipped with a swimming pool—or a South Austin Cold Tub as I call it. Why would I want my precious grandchildren to be hidden in the backyard when all the action is in the front? Along with the pool, there is a kiddie swing for them, too.<br /><br />This week I reached a new high (or low?) in South Austin<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFcE0FG0cJBDtDKtEqfix2D3-rEVWMgUlE5o3xZ6p0lxRDzEofRmCTfS0U0yu4X1hpeHRnJQwiPPnQdTA5uLGJXNTkQMb5ac-EstIbFzvwh6KXuN3l8HdJqceT1ZTQsLfVMT29tQ0z28I/s1600-h/DSCN5464.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 158px; height: 211px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFcE0FG0cJBDtDKtEqfix2D3-rEVWMgUlE5o3xZ6p0lxRDzEofRmCTfS0U0yu4X1hpeHRnJQwiPPnQdTA5uLGJXNTkQMb5ac-EstIbFzvwh6KXuN3l8HdJqceT1ZTQsLfVMT29tQ0z28I/s320/DSCN5464.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346892030669524546" border="0" /></a> Living. While the children were playing in the pool and enjoying the shade of my huge oak tree, I rolled the barbecue pit around from the back yard and cooked some mighty fine pork chops while keeping an eye on the family and greeting the neighbors and their dogs—all in the front yard.<br /><br />I still have visions of making the backyard a playground for William and Caroline and growing lots of tomatoes and other veggies. But until then, you can find me in the front yard—just a swinging, swimming and barbecuing. Everything they say about South Austin living is true.</span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBU12fvuTWh4tl7z0El_2msHa1u556Zq2kq4JzaCo6k37GeSxefR5UZR01iy0TOEWOSaP0fOuE6wt5AFDIN0JPNgBIDJdcNpH5grKuHZxhDMtBe4KIWeLzI10o2t-2xjGhKBOuoPP015s/s1600-h/bbq.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 124px; height: 108px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBU12fvuTWh4tl7z0El_2msHa1u556Zq2kq4JzaCo6k37GeSxefR5UZR01iy0TOEWOSaP0fOuE6wt5AFDIN0JPNgBIDJdcNpH5grKuHZxhDMtBe4KIWeLzI10o2t-2xjGhKBOuoPP015s/s320/bbq.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346893486582143314" border="0" /></a>Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-1903856046537073822009-06-04T10:57:00.007-05:002009-06-04T11:28:50.794-05:00We Can Have It All<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSL2iMW90ZgLTlT5tXCB1h6G3Y7689VXQ6dkQSrHCxKkVKKrLBaiHpMboE60b4NnHdujH6kkN5IAG7FtKIBq6dLCUUxnR5tfQwDdvhjFnt4hm1QOG_6MdhForuRW7KgNzQcWdeO1Nqgdc/s1600-h/images.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 96px; height: 134px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSL2iMW90ZgLTlT5tXCB1h6G3Y7689VXQ6dkQSrHCxKkVKKrLBaiHpMboE60b4NnHdujH6kkN5IAG7FtKIBq6dLCUUxnR5tfQwDdvhjFnt4hm1QOG_6MdhForuRW7KgNzQcWdeO1Nqgdc/s320/images.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5343506421469200450" border="0" /></a>
<br /><meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CMARYGO%7E1%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="country-region"></o:smarttagtype><o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="State" downloadurl="http://www.5iamas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags"></o:smarttagtype><o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="City" downloadurl="http://www.5iamas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags"></o:smarttagtype><o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="PlaceType" downloadurl="http://www.5iantlavalamp.com/"></o:smarttagtype><o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="PlaceName" downloadurl="http://www.5iantlavalamp.com/"></o:smarttagtype><o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="place" downloadurl="http://www.5iantlavalamp.com/"></o:smarttagtype><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" latentstylecount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if !mso]><object classid="clsid:38481807-CA0E-42D2-BF39-B33AF135CC4D" id="ieooui"></object> <style> st1\:*{behavior:url(#ieooui) } </style> <![endif]--><style> <!-- /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]--><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Post Cereals has recently launched a new nation-wide television ad campaign:</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">“Progress plays no role in Post Shredded Wheat,” says the actor who is supposed to be the company’s CEO.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Then he proudly states, “We put the NO in In<b style="">no</b>vation!”</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Most other advertisements boast that their product is the newest incarnation and will make us better citizens in this fast-spinning world. Post says shredded wheat is fine, just the way it’s been for decades</span><span style=";font-size:85%;color:red;" > <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size:85%;">If shredded wheat were an appliance or an electronic device instead of a cereal, the c<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8KmXG7lNPEkqQ4kQ-aIxdaagB97-VVl2dqX0GhifpcLrrN2Yev-BL1YwYsL-nm0WTJrbSvMzZTUwfwwvny4fd0QrB50LKn7AJfUFe7dH4Jzx_l4OpkEuK_hzVCSfpI78F6zdLMTN8PuU/s1600-h/shredder.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 108px; height: 108px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8KmXG7lNPEkqQ4kQ-aIxdaagB97-VVl2dqX0GhifpcLrrN2Yev-BL1YwYsL-nm0WTJrbSvMzZTUwfwwvny4fd0QrB50LKn7AJfUFe7dH4Jzx_l4OpkEuK_hzVCSfpI78F6zdLMTN8PuU/s320/shredder.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5343507457284356690" border="0" /></a>ompany could never have taken such an approach.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Imagine an ad for an 80-year old paper shredder.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">“Progress plays no role in our paper shredders,” the announcer would boast.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">That means we’d still be using something that resembles a hand-cranked pasta maker to destroy our old IRS records and love letters.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size:85%;">And what about an ad that claims, “Th</span><span style="font-size:85%;">ere’s been no progress in microwave ovens?” There’s certainly no room in my small kitchen for the earliest microwave oven — the one that was 5 ½ feet <a style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMEHe7ZeBqXCQ1-GtzZLJMMN3YrVG4v2Z22mNILnQ-KDVwey7LQy1puocNG2Ho2vhIJDaqm4FwgCVJ7fJOb1eQO9qb4LeuCA_r0ui920mcTxqZ1BREFB36GNwawvxIved6dstfV6ycGmM/s1600-h/microjpg.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 91px; height: 110px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMEHe7ZeBqXCQ1-GtzZLJMMN3YrVG4v2Z22mNILnQ-KDVwey7LQy1puocNG2Ho2vhIJDaqm4FwgCVJ7fJOb1eQO9qb4LeuCA_r0ui920mcTxqZ1BREFB36GNwawvxIved6dstfV6ycGmM/s320/microjpg.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5343507559967929138" border="0" /></a>tall and weighed almost 800 pounds. That 1947 microwave would leave no space for even<i style=""> mini</i> shredded wheat. </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Smarter cars and phones, the newest digital recorder, tweeting, and measuring time in nanoseconds—these advancements can put us in a tailspin and leave no time to stop to smell the roses.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Then one morning we wake up and want to check out.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">That’s when we take a break, sit on the deck at Deep Eddy or trek to the beach. That’s when we head to <st1:state st="on">Colorado</st1:state> or to <st1:country-region st="on">Jamaica</st1:country-region> or to <st1:city st="on">Bastrop</st1:city> or <st1:place st="on"><st1:placetype st="on">Lake</st1:placetype> <st1:placename st="on">Travis</st1:placename></st1:place>. That’s when some move to the country to escape the hustle and bustle of city living and settle into a life that embraces a simpler, calmer time. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size:85%;">And then we start to fret because some of those places don</span><span style="font-size:85%;">’t have Wi-Fi; internet connections are slow in rural areas; and there are miles and miles of <st1:state st="on"><st1:place st="on">Texas without cell phone service</st1:place></st1:state></span>.<span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">That’s when we question our decision to check out and wonder why we can’t have it all.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size:85%;">We <i style="">can</i> have it all — we just have to be clear about what <i style="">all</i> is, and when we want it. I think it boils down to paying attention and making choices.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">For even in the most tranquil life and in the most tumultuous one, we can choose what we do and what we pay attention to. Nobody makes up pick up our smart phone the minute our plane touches down; nobody makes us sit and stare at a lake. We’ve always had those choices, </span><span style="font-size:85%;">and we still do.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Maybe Post is reassuring consumers through the</span><span style="font-size:85%;">ir shredded wheat ads that we still have a handle on our cereal even if we can’t decide between the latest PC or Apple or which phone meets our needs. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Post Cereals, I’m certain, is giving us an opportunity to philosophize about lots of issues and to reexamine our values. And I bet all they intended to do w</span><span style="font-size:85%;">as to sell some shredded wheat. </span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWGED9SH3sPf8XsRIwhx5VG3mCc2tuCEnkYtLLVTaKJU8dc4L1tLSZuPwSXI-lqvNT1sJixi-1mtmuVHa7wSOk2IKCfmJXEUQYTH5lnRhZTho98cQwQJcAmOATGaIWu7Sj_5gQNSlTH-I/s1600-h/shredded+wheat.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 139px; height: 102px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWGED9SH3sPf8XsRIwhx5VG3mCc2tuCEnkYtLLVTaKJU8dc4L1tLSZuPwSXI-lqvNT1sJixi-1mtmuVHa7wSOk2IKCfmJXEUQYTH5lnRhZTho98cQwQJcAmOATGaIWu7Sj_5gQNSlTH-I/s320/shredded+wheat.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5343509684768725714" border="0" /></a></p> Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-58634817751990543322009-05-28T10:57:00.005-05:002009-05-28T11:06:29.306-05:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrWPa2uBjqjoiSs8DDbPylG2hdsKAu3Vq0YIm7UriBEzDMyGybyDiBDgwYJut6wEaUdLGn_qNdne0GJY2PIN6zeJ-1RGaehmeghbdsI_Tee1PLvuJa6JmLzL5jhmLKy9iZQtdwcw9ocdQ/s1600-h/DSCN5373.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 259px; height: 195px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrWPa2uBjqjoiSs8DDbPylG2hdsKAu3Vq0YIm7UriBEzDMyGybyDiBDgwYJut6wEaUdLGn_qNdne0GJY2PIN6zeJ-1RGaehmeghbdsI_Tee1PLvuJa6JmLzL5jhmLKy9iZQtdwcw9ocdQ/s320/DSCN5373.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5340905030089230930" border="0" /></a><span style=";font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" >Susan, Mary Gordon & Royito<br /><br />It was like old home week! Except this time I wasn't in the company of my brother Roy and my sister Susan. I was in the company of brother and sister Roy and Susan Blount.<br /><br />People ask Roy why he hasn't dumped that Georgia accent. Roy says that even though some mighty stupid things have been said with a Southern accent, there is nothing wrong with the accent itself. I couldn't agree more!</span><br /></span>Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-17643577824932408572009-05-24T12:07:00.005-05:002009-05-24T12:15:29.874-05:00A brighter view<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieISxrGrNSI5s6AndKns_hT4PZOTjzioiSBm7iaB13SF7ctUYZCtKG0YtKxLRjCy0evX3ZlatxrDnCHzzLiHKIN41Gro9rmABCPqi8CpmEiVr3yfrQtBFrMV194x2dIQm-7BGon-yds3s/s1600-h/DSCN5280.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 254px; height: 191px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieISxrGrNSI5s6AndKns_hT4PZOTjzioiSBm7iaB13SF7ctUYZCtKG0YtKxLRjCy0evX3ZlatxrDnCHzzLiHKIN41Gro9rmABCPqi8CpmEiVr3yfrQtBFrMV194x2dIQm-7BGon-yds3s/s320/DSCN5280.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339439443389551810" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">It's not just the skies that have been cloudy; my mind has been a little cloudy, too. Saturday I got inspired to wash the window over my kitchen sink. My, my, what a crystal clear view of my backyard I got. Now even though the skies are overcast, I'm seeing things with great clarity!</span>Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-71235990820129893142009-05-24T12:04:00.003-05:002009-05-24T12:07:38.782-05:00Blogging<meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CMARYGO%7E1%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" latentstylecount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><style> <!-- /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.6in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]--> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">I set out to become a regular blogger. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Instead, I’m a regular blogger who blogs irregularly. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">That’s how I do everything—why should blogging be any different?</span></p> Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-75832583064902624962009-04-02T12:06:00.005-05:002009-04-02T12:14:27.678-05:00Sunny side up<span style="font-size:100%;">My friend Molly walked into Casa Garcia’s this morning carrying a pink egg carton. When she sat down beside me for breakfast, she said, “I brought you some eggs!”<br /><br />Now I’ve had lots of friends bring me a little something from time to time, but I can’t remember anyone ever bringing me a carton of eggs. What made this gift so special was tha</span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjzh2xCNMRFM8dc___MhZp6vBN3jZvLqQcRE58dUNfPYEKASzvF-aBuybfbjkYyqWyafNuxISZMCsDaPsFDMzgG7fEeMFfLYEL0GqTkSMCpX1dYDVG69vq4Ahqhe9ad-KpR9M0HrV5z7U/s1600-h/Molly's+Eggs.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 287px; height: 216px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjzh2xCNMRFM8dc___MhZp6vBN3jZvLqQcRE58dUNfPYEKASzvF-aBuybfbjkYyqWyafNuxISZMCsDaPsFDMzgG7fEeMFfLYEL0GqTkSMCpX1dYDVG69vq4Ahqhe9ad-KpR9M0HrV5z7U/s320/Molly's+Eggs.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320142165994133794" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:100%;">t Molly and her husband Jon grew these eggs. OK. I’m not sure if you say people </span><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:100%;" >grow</span><span style="font-size:100%;"> eggs or not. What I am sure about is that these eggs came from the 12 beautiful chickens that live in the finest chicken coop you’ve ever seen—and that the eggs and the coop belong to Molly and Jon. I got to see the chickens only a few days after they had come to live in this fine coop—before they were laying or doing much of anything else.<br /><br />Six weeks later, these chickens are doing their thing, and each one usually lays an egg every day—in a variety of colors. And I get to be on the receiving end of the chickens, and Molly’s, bounty.</span><br /><br />I’m fixing to rewrite Guy Clark’s song to include eggs: “There are only 3 things that money can’t buy—that’s true love, homegrown tomatoes and homegrown eggs.”Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-14233590024993124862009-03-25T12:17:00.011-05:002009-03-25T16:12:34.022-05:00Our tomatoes are in!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi49sC7WJjzzo9DfVG77XerHtKQOcF304KzOa-EI7gbZW2Qpdh3rh-cvR17ZfiVoX0jtUYlZtOdmj8t3ATI2GwuvANvVhI5D4lsjYHFjTiWPGtf3KvwJh11yhmuyHsExEruN2RtyL6GmME/s1600-h/DSCN4962.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 177px; height: 236px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi49sC7WJjzzo9DfVG77XerHtKQOcF304KzOa-EI7gbZW2Qpdh3rh-cvR17ZfiVoX0jtUYlZtOdmj8t3ATI2GwuvANvVhI5D4lsjYHFjTiWPGtf3KvwJh11yhmuyHsExEruN2RtyL6GmME/s320/DSCN4962.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5317176415883967906" border="0" /></a><meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CMARYGO%7E1%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><o:smarttagtype namespaceuri="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" name="place"></o:smarttagtype><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" latentstylecount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if !mso]><object classid="clsid:38481807-CA0E-42D2-BF39-B33AF135CC4D" id="ieooui"></object> <style> st1\:*{behavior:url(#ieooui) } </style> <![endif]--><style> <!-- /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.6in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">Three-year-old William Spence Newby and I got down to work on Friday, March 20. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Maybe I should say, we got down to </span><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:85%;" >play</span><span style="font-size:85%;">, for we both had a wonderful time planting our 2009 tomatoes. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I had prepared the soil in the flowerbed before William arrived. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">His job was to put the plants into the ground.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">At first William was hesitant to step in the dirt. I told him it was like playing in the sand at the beach, and that did the trick. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">When William found a few rocks in the freshly turned soil, I suggested that he toss them out of the bed. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">This became the highlight of the planting ceremony: plant a little; toss <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikedvqmm-8nhSw_LyItefi6muupxRfhz-_NIrs9E2cqCeOoSwg6Q78xvW5jCLoBpuLM7o4AiHRwb5EcwKj7rNTx_4KQStN6wwurX18DeFW5-MNqOTkoSHiuDcBXSnn8gt7H9aLHsgETv8/s1600-h/DSCN4977.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 249px; height: 187px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikedvqmm-8nhSw_LyItefi6muupxRfhz-_NIrs9E2cqCeOoSwg6Q78xvW5jCLoBpuLM7o4AiHRwb5EcwKj7rNTx_4KQStN6wwurX18DeFW5-MNqOTkoSHiuDcBXSnn8gt7H9aLHsgETv8/s320/DSCN4977.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5317176918458316546" border="0" /></a>a little; plant a little; toss a little. We managed to get 9 plants inside the bed; then we went to work on the soil in the rest of our garden. William used his whole body to mix some revitalizing compounds in with the <st1:place st="on">South Austin</st1:place> dirt.
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<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">After planting all our tomatoes, it was time to water.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">This is what William loves to do best.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">So he watered.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">And watered. </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">When it seemed that all our work might just float down the street, we “shut her off.”</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Then we admired our work and William headed for the bath tub.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQ2cHr_am3X1yK-I_zcjDe22JuwS1jUx7eDESbvs1l7USPSTSvkRv7c6WyCXL64uZxjMuc354PZ2cKzuc_JczKXGK2YjkTUaj8lxoOXLV-_QYeQbbdvUSiPwnheWqGAJ7kxwi7QxaF_Aw/s1600-h/DSCN5002.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 182px; height: 243px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQ2cHr_am3X1yK-I_zcjDe22JuwS1jUx7eDESbvs1l7USPSTSvkRv7c6WyCXL64uZxjMuc354PZ2cKzuc_JczKXGK2YjkTUaj8lxoOXLV-_QYeQbbdvUSiPwnheWqGAJ7kxwi7QxaF_Aw/s320/DSCN5002.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5317177571510689218" border="0" /></a></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">
<br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:85%;">There are only two things that money can’t buy…and that’s true love and homegrown tomatoes.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;">With my precious grandson, William, I have it all! </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4088904072845758719.post-15837919988363100852009-03-10T10:21:00.001-05:002009-03-10T10:21:50.442-05:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAdPQq0PorRs2I0-oCZhD9Dwnb2_tnB7Br_ksOVEPKd_IjaNr6poqf-eCs1d8jd__i-j-AuqbiyoX5qGDKOzieTcP2BWAGEVi9UfGyLoPuSHsoENeVpwDPQ6v3n0KZoMANJm9ZkIowD_8/s1600-h/millionaire.bmp"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 216px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAdPQq0PorRs2I0-oCZhD9Dwnb2_tnB7Br_ksOVEPKd_IjaNr6poqf-eCs1d8jd__i-j-AuqbiyoX5qGDKOzieTcP2BWAGEVi9UfGyLoPuSHsoENeVpwDPQ6v3n0KZoMANJm9ZkIowD_8/s320/millionaire.bmp" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5311579634665496466" border="0" /></a>Mary Gordon Spencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15056137317994457789noreply@blogger.com2